Okay, so this post is a few weeks late, but hey, better late than never! Mother’s Day this year was awesome! We had amazing weather and spent the day riding our bikes at the Sunday Parkways. I have to say, I feel so lucky that I live in a state where they shut down streets in the neighborhood for a good part of the day to make a greenway for bicycles and pedestrians. Not only did people get to ride around safely on their bikes, but there were tons of vendors, activities for kids, and food with free samples! We also ate delicious gluten-free vegan cupcakes from Tula Bakery. They make some of the best gluten-free stuff I’ve ever eaten! Overall, it was a great Mother’s Day.
Recently I went on a trip to Bend, OR and I was coined the “dude” of the trip. It was kind of funny since I packed the car, started the fireplace, drove and didn’t ask for directions when needed, and a few other “dudely” things like burp and fart (hey I know you all do it too!). As I was telling Charlie about this, he told me I was “chude,” which is a chick that is kind of like a dude. Hmmm, I am thinking that might be a compliment? Charlie broke it down: girly girls, woo girls, chudes, and cudes (women who are more dude-like than girly). Funny thing is that I am proud of my “chudeness.” I sometimes find myself thinking I should try to be more “girly” or “ladylike,” but who am I kidding I barely wear make-up and mini skirts. If by chance you find me dressing up, it’s probably because I’m going to a wedding. While I enjoy my “chudeness,” I do sometimes feel a little jealous of the girly girls and think, “Hey, I think I’d look pretty good wearing that cute dress or some make-up.” It’s a little infrequent battle that goes on inside me. I think we are taught as little girls to want to look pretty” and be “sexy,” but as an adult, I don’t want my Moo to have to worry about those things when she gets older. I definitely think that “beauty is in the eye of the beholder,” and it’s just too bad that it seems like the majority of society views thin, made-up women as “beautiful.” Hey, chudes and cudes are hot too! Oh yeah, check me out being kind of a ”chude” sitting on the couch slouched over with Bubbers holding on to my boob. The other photo is of me just “chuding” out in Bend.
One of the most difficult things for me to find are comfortable shoes. I am plagued with the unfortunate condition of having a bunion on my left foot. Supposedly it is possibly genetic and from wearing narrow shoes. I don’t ever wear narrow shoes, so I just have my mom to blame. Don’t worry, I’m not going to show you a picture of my bunion…but thank goodness it’s not that bad (yet). Well, on a search for shoes that don’t hurt my bunion, I found these awesome pairs of Keens! Not only are they absolutely cute and colorful, but super comfortable! Now I can stand on my feet for hours and it doesn’t hurt as much, definitely a huge improvement. Below is a photo of the shoes and then one of me, wearing them with a matching shirt! As you can see, I love the color teal (just like Moo). Now I have to go back to REI and buy a few more pairs!
As an artist and teacher, nothing makes me prouder than seeing my children learn and grow. Moo has done exceptionally well this past year and grew a tremendous amount academically, artistically, emotionally, and socially. I think Kindergarten is a great thing for children to take part it. It sets up a great foundation for children, and while it is not expected for children to become readers or master various skills sets, I think it’s a great way for children to learn how to grow socially and emotionally. Moo was in the class with the more challenging students. As a teacher, I can understand how just a few children can really upset the balance of classroom management, but her teacher was amazing! I was lucky to volunteer in the classroom a handful of times, and her teacher always responded in such amazing ways. While it is stressful for the children at times, and parents, for them to be faced with other children who are not so well-behaved, I think it teaches them an important lesson on how to deal with people who are different from them and how to adjust to various, and sometimes difficult, situations.
I am in such awe of Moo’s growth, and you can see that from the pictures below. When she was going into Kindergarten, she was not reading or writing, or drawing very well yet. Now she is writing sentences and moving towards conventional spelling, which from my experience as a primary teacher, usually doesn’t happen until tthe latter half of first grade. What I love the most are her little drawings. I like to write her little lunch notes every day and draw little pictures, and it is evident that she has picked up on some of her mama’s drawing skills! I just LOVE children’s art. Anyway, enough of my boasting…check out my little artist.
That’s Rapunzel on the right in a tower.
I just couldn’t help it…I entered Bubbers and Moo in the Gap Casting Call. Just like every other parent out there I thought, “My children are absolutely the most adorable children in the world. I mean, who couldn’t love faces like theirs?!” However, unlike some other parents, I didn’t promote my entries at all. I am a realist…I realize that my children have a small chance of winning, but I did it for fun…why not? Some of those parents just spend every day voting for their child to win and send out massive emails saying, “Vote for my kid!” But why do this? It’s just another popularity contest and promotes unnecessary competition. If I really wanted my children to be models, the I’d find an agent, but really, I don’t want my children to be child models. I think it’s too much pressure for child, and well, that’s a whole other discussion. For now, just a mom boasting her little lovies.
If you haven’t noticed, I’m not the best at keeping up with this blog. What usually happens is that I do a writing “surge” every now and then to catch up. I have this handy little app on my phone for WordPress to upload the pictures for the post, then I save it. Currently I have quite a few “saved” posts with pictures!
Anyway, the weekend of May 5 I went on a childless trip with my cousin and her friend. My cousin was visiting from NJ and her friend lives here in Portland. It was a nice weekend “off” for mom. We drove out to Bend, OR as our destination and stopped off in Sisters for lunch on the way there. First of all, the drive was spectacular! It was the beginning of May, yet as we were driving through the mountain pass it was snowing! We passed by the breathtaking Detroit Lake, which I plan to come back to camp this summer. when we got to Sisters, we ate at a small, mostly vegan and gluten-free cafe. The town of Sisters is small, but quaint and charming. The downtown had a Wild West theme for their storefronts. It was too bad we couldn’t stay and explore, as we were off to Sunriver.
The house we rented for the weekend was in Sunriver, which is this awesome little community nestled in the woods of Central Oregon, just about a 20 minute drive from Bend. Sunriver has its own bike path system, observatory, natural areas, multiple pool areas, and small “town” area. I absolutely loved it and thought, “I NEED to come back with the family!” (which we are in July with my mom). It is an outdoors person’s paradise with tons of hiking, biking, fishing, whitewater rafting, and other outdoor activities. The weather was kind of chilly and brisk, but sunny, which they boast gets over 300 days of sun a year. If you live in Portland, you can drive 3-4 hours to Bend/Sunriver to get sun during the winter.

My cousin and I at the top of Pilot Butte.
Hiking at the Benham Falls area.
Here are some of my *latest and greatest* creations. I am planning on revamping my Etsy store, but alas, no time as of late. Soon enough though, these little trinkets will be on sale. These are my original ideas and copyrighted by me (Lida Avery). Figure I better put that in here somewhere right?
My teeth people…perfect for putting little teeth in. Funny thing is that it looks like they are crying, but that was not on purpose. The glaze just ran down and they look a little sad…oops oh well.
More teeth people. This is more like a small keepsake..just for fun.
Yet another tooth jar! Apparently I love making teeth…they are quite fun to sculpt.
Surprise! Inside is a little ceramic tooth!
Mr. Bear…another one of my characters in a three-dimensional form. I used a bunch of different glazes and they kind of all ran into one another creating this cool effect.
Just a little vase I made. I like handbuilding and creating things with an organic form.
The house we rent isn’t super big, but it has a lot of rooms. We have 4 bedrooms, a secret room, garage, and huge yard, but only one bath. Downstairs is the living room, kitchen, bathroom, girls’ room, and playroom/craft room. Upstairs is a long hallway which we use as a reading area, Owen’s room, our bedroom, and off our bedroom is a secret little semi=finished room Charlie uses as his art room.
Recently we got a new dining table (photos soon to come) and I plan to by my friend’s couch. We are repainting the kitchen white. The bathroom is all done, and I’ll put photos up one day. Upstairs we are still working on a little on each room, which goes the same for downstairs. The craft room is where I create and it also serves at the playroom. It used to be the girls’ room and the piano was in the dining area, so we never really had a dining area. Then when we decided to move the girls’ room to the smaller room and make their room the craft/play room, we moved the piano in there and WA LA! We had a real dining table! Not only that, but we have a nice multipurpose room: piano, playroom, and mom art making room. Moo and I love anything in the turquoise family, so we painted it this nice lighter blue-green trim with light blue walls.
The kitchen is kind of small now for the kids, and I’d like to redo it, same goes for the trofast toys storage. I like it, but I want an activity table where the kids can play on or draw/make are on, yet store their toys and supplies underneath.
This is my desk, opposite the kitchen and storage. I had to put my sewing machine up there when I’m not using it because Bubbers kept trying to destroy it. As you can see, I have too much crap.
My little gnome and bird house that sits on top of my piano, next to the kids’ money jars…kind of like their little savings.
Charlie painted this dresser drawer for me with his cute character a few years ago for my birthday. The little ceramic thing in front is Moo’s kitty.
I’d still like to put up some type of art hanging system for the kids’ art and hang more of my and Charlie’s art in there. Then there’s redoing the activity table, kitchen, and I think that’s it for that room…for now at least.
Okay, so I admit, I’m kind of obsessed with home design. As a little kid, one of the careers I had wanted to be “when I grew up” was an interior designer. Needless to say, I am in love with Apartment Therapy. I know there are tons of other design blogs out there, but I just can’t keep up with anything more than, well, just one!
Anyway, we have rented this house for 2 years now and are currently redecorating the it. We have repainted almost every room..whether it’s just touch up or the trim, or new colors, and bought and made some new things. I think the reason why I haven’t really spent the time to fully invest in decorating it my ultimate “vision” is because I have a tendency to move. Our lease is up at the end of the month and we hope to renew (just waiting for our renewal…any day now…I hope…). In the meantime, we’ve been decorating away.
A little while ago I put up photos of the girls’ room (Moo and Savannah), and here are more. Charlie had made the girls their bed frames. It was pretty simple and only cost about $100 total for all the materials. $100 for 2 handmade bed frames, not too shabby if you ask me. All that is left now are just a few finishing touches. When it’s 100% I’ll take “real” photos with my “real” camera, but for now, enjoy my usual Instagram photos.
Moo’s leprechaun.
Savannah’s bed. I had made the girls both the quilts you see here in the beds, but I plan to make new ones. As you can see, they were small quilts (crib size). I guess since they are 8 and 6 I should make them twin size ones…
The birdie pillow is the “infamous” foot pillow. That little pillow was mine from when I was a baby. I have sewed on numerous covers and of course washed it a million times. The inside stuffing is disgusting, but it makes the pillow soft and squishy. It’s Moo’s favorite thing, her security pillow. It was my security pillow, now it’s Moo. Instead of passing on some jewelery, I passed on my old foot pillow. It’s called a foot pillow because when I used to sleep with it, it always fell to my feet by the morning, and apparently my ex-husband (Moo’s dad) thought it smelled like feet, which it didn’t.
















































